When you talk of relationship, divorce may be an anti-climax; but still it is a reality and we have to accept it in our life and society. If the partners find themselves incompatible in respect of life style, ideologies, work culture, past love affairs, sharing of responsibilities, individual differences in tastes, etc., it is impossible to maintain relationship and live as husband and wife. You cannot live under a common roof and quarrel for any issue. The relationship gets worse day by day.
Children who are exposed to frequent parental fights get frustrated and dejected, sometime more than the parents. They do not like to get back home from school as they feel the home atmosphere hostile. They grow devoid of love and affection from parents. Under these circumstances divorce or living in separation is the only solution to maintain harmony between individual parents and the kids. Children may miss either of the parents, that is all. On the other hand, they develop strong personality with high degree of independence. Life becomes lot more peaceful though one parent will be missing. In fact they learn to live with attachment not only with both parents but also with step brothers and sisters.
Looked from this angle it is evident that "divorce" is not a bad word if the marriage does not work!
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