Saturday, August 28, 2010

Teenagers Should Know Their Limits In Dating And Should Not Indulge In Sex!


Dating started as a social practice with Christian society; today it has become a way of life with other communities also world over. It is extremely popular with teenage boys and girls, either in their schooling or in college life. Dating is a healthy social activity wherein a beautiful friendship results between classmates and colleagues while studying. You get an opportunity to make friendship with a girl or boy to share your thoughts and extend a helping hand to solve each others problems, academic as well as personal.

There is a tendency to get infatuated with your date based on the physical attraction in this impressionable age. This also leads to sexual advances and deep relationships. Sex amongst teens is totally undesirable and harmful for their development and to the society in the larger perspective. It spoils the entire life of the budding architects, scientists or doctors; You lose your studies in addition to your precious health. There is the moral degradation if you believe in religion. No religion preaches in favor of sex before marriage that too at teenage.

Students should learn to confine their dating to healthy friendship without extending it to wrong relationship. Parents and elders should also help teenagers to take the righteous path in their life.

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Divorce Is Not A Bad Word!


When you talk of relationship, divorce may be an anti-climax; but still it is a reality and we have to accept it in our life and society. If the partners find themselves incompatible in respect of life style, ideologies, work culture, past love affairs, sharing of responsibilities, individual differences in tastes, etc., it is impossible to maintain relationship and live as husband and wife. You cannot live under a common roof and quarrel for any issue. The relationship gets worse day by day.

Children who are exposed to frequent parental fights get frustrated and dejected, sometime more than the parents. They do not like to get back home from school as they feel the home atmosphere hostile. They grow devoid of love and affection from parents. Under these circumstances divorce or living in separation is the only solution to maintain harmony between individual parents and the kids. Children may miss either of the parents, that is all. On the other hand, they develop strong personality with high degree of independence. Life becomes lot more peaceful though one parent will be missing. In fact they learn to live with attachment not only with both parents but also with step brothers and sisters.

Looked from this angle it is evident that "divorce" is not a bad word if the marriage does not work!

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

If You Are Serious About Your Relationship You Can Date Chinese Girls!


China is one of the most populous countries in the world contributing 12% of the world's population. Both men and women get professionally qualified and live in countries all over the world. Their restaurants are prominent in any part of the world. By and large Chinese girls are traditional, beautiful and homely. Parents keep a watch on adult girls and their friends. Girls maintain friendship with close relatives and family friends only.

Unless it is a serous relationship other boys are not allowed to befriend the girls. Foreigners do entice local girls for fun and pleasure. They are running a high degree of risk; more often the elders of the family of the girls settle the score with grave consequences; girls are also put to torments. Therefore as a foreigner if you want to date a Chinese girl be clear in your mind to marry her after considering the pros and cons. Girls are smart, home loving and bond with boyfriend with immense faith and affection.

There are a number of websites which do a great dating service to connect Chinese girls with Chinese boys as well as men of other countries like USA, UK, Germany, Singapore, etc. Important among the websites are Chinesekisses.com, DatingChinese.com, Chineselovelinks.com, MeetChinesegirls.com

Try these websites and pick up your soul mate!